Books, Podcasts, Movies, Music, and Products to Make Life Better in 2025

Books, Podcasts, Movies, Music, and Products to Make Life Better in 2025

Here are a few of my favorite things that make life even sweeter … Inspiring memoirs by incredibly talented women who overcame challenges to do what they love. Stories that remind us of the power of human connection. Books that make us laugh. Sweeping sagas that celebrate courage and freedom. Stage and screen moments that make us feel alive. Conversations about what matters most. Travel that connects us to people we love. Practical products that make our children and grandchildren happier. Here’s to more peace, love, and joy in 2025!

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Favorite Things: Books

Since 2018, I’ve switched from Kindle and paperbacks to audiobooks. They make commuting enjoyable, are easy on the eyes, and who doesn’t love being told a great bedtime story? Audible, owned by Amazon, has a standard membership of $14.95 per month, which gets you one book each month and access to their library of free selections, such as classics. With a monthly Spotify Premium membership of $11.99, you get ad-free music, podcasts, and 15 hours of audiobook listening.

Memoirs

Be Ready When the Luck Happens by Ina Garten

Book, Kindle, Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook included with Spotify Premium

My favorite genre is memoir. When Ina Garten released Be Ready When the Luck Happens read by the author herself, I binged her story in two days. I’ve loved watching her Cooking for Jeffrey since The Barefoot Contessa. She’s been my go-to cook for delicious recipes that never fail and entertaining ideas for twenty years. Her voice is as soothing as her comfort food — but what I loved learning is how tough she is. 

Her television/cookbook empire was built by skills in the kitchen, prolific creativity, and her casual, classy style, but there’s more to the story. The book reveals the scope of her smarts, her tenacity in overcoming obstacles, and her wisdom in choosing an amazing partner. She has an MBA from George Washington University School of Business and wrote nuclear energy policy for Presidents Ford and Carter. While she had class/financial advantages growing up the daughter of a charismatic surgeon and shrewd businesswoman who pushed her academically, her parents’ dark sides were traumatizing obstacles to overcome. Her childhood was controlled and miserable by an emotionally cold mother and physically abusive father. If she completed five of six tasks perfectly her father gave her, there was “hell to pay.”   

Her life changed at 17 when the stars aligned and she met Jeffrey who has stellar military and business accomplishments of his own. She credits her success and happiness to his telling her to do what she loves and always treating her with respect and kindness. They survived and thrived despite separating briefly and living on opposite ends of the world. She says they’ve always been able to talk, and Jeffrey was right. They could stay connected and both pursue their dreams. 

“Two For the Road” was my favorite chapter. After reading Arthur Frommer’s Europe on $5 a Day they did just that. With a pup tent and gas stove, they camped across Europe May – August in 1972. A bonus of the book are photos of that time and other special memories. Ina fell in love with French cooking when a woman in Normandy showed her how to make Coq au Vin. In 2000, Ina bought a Parisian apartment where she still cooks for friends. 

Her interest in French cooking renewed mine. Inspired, I cooked Coq au Riesling again. I also read the memoir below and continue reading wistfully my friend’s blog on France. I’d love a return visit! 

Ina was the first guest on Oprah’s new podcast that just launched. I love her secrets to success.

My Life in France by Julia Child

Book, Kindle, Audiobook on Audible

Audiobook on Spotify

After Ina’s book, I made a bee-line for Julia’s memoir. I loved the movie Julia & Julia and vaguely remembered the lady my grandmother watched cook with a voice the pitch of a turkey gobbling.

The book’s descriptions of France and French food are luscious. She, too, was a tenacious woman. She wanted to do her part in WWII. When turned away from the women’s navy and army cores because she was 6 feet 2 inches, she worked instead typing secret files for what became the CIA. Like Jeffrey Garten, Child’s husband was in the military and the couple made France a second home. She was the only woman in her class at Le Cordon Bleu in Paris. She published her first cookbook at age 49. It took her nine years to complete it.

She became an award-winning public television host and author. In the 1960s, she was diagnosed with breast cancer, had a radical mastectomy, and lived to be 91.

After discussing the memoirs by Child and Garten with my friend, Sally, she loaned me Stanley Tucci’s Taste: My Life Through Food. The award-winning writer/director/actor/tv host played Julia Child’s husband in Julia & Julia and appeared in Ina Garten’s new series, Be My Guest.

My Name is Barbra by Barbra Steisand

Book, Kindle, and Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook Included with Spotify Premium

I’m enjoying this book because I’m a Barbra Streisand fan and appreciate her dedication to authenticity and details in covering what seems to be every detail of her life. At 48+ hours, this is more an autobiography than a memoir. I confess to skipping some of the showbiz minutiae but appreciate her warm, conversational voice, eccentricities that make her Barbra, and vulnerability. Unlike Garten and Child, she lived in near poverty after her father died. Her mother was emotionally unavailable, and her stepfather was verbally abusive. She was an old soul and a “little adult” from an early age — from taking herself to the dentist as a child to leaving home at 16 to make it in the arts.

Nonfiction Essays

ANYTHING by Dave Barry makes me laugh. A lot. He was a columnist for the Miami Herald from 1983-2005 and has won the Pulitzer Prize for Commentary and The Walter Cronkite Award for Excellence in Journalism. Because his books read like standup comedy, I’ve just included the links to audio versions below of my favorites. 

Best.State.Ever.: A Florida Man Defends His Homeland

Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook on Spotify

I’ll Mature When I’m Dead

Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook on Spotify

Fiction

A Good Hard Look by Ann Napolitano

Book, Kindle, and Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook on Spotify

Set in Flannery O’Connor’s small hometown of Milledgeville, Georgia near the end of the iconic southern writer’s life, the novel is a compelling tale of rural life, human connection, and heartbreaking loss. This is literary fiction and beautiful writing at its best.

Oh, William! by Elizabeth Strout

Book, Kindle, and Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook for Purchase on Spotify

My friend Sara gave me this book three years ago and confidently said, “You’ll like it.” I’m glad I finally read it because it introduced me to William and Lucy, a divorced couple who reconnect as both deal with loss in the present and ghosts from the past. The book description reads: “Lucy Barton is a writer, but her ex-husband, William, remains a hard man to read.” Strout is a Pulitzer Prize winner and darling of Oprah, NPR, and the New York Times. Needing to know more about Lucy and her world, read the two books that followed…

Lucy by the Sea by Elizabeth Strout

Book, Kindle, and Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook Included with Spotify Membership


The pandemic drives ex-couple William and Lucy to flee Manhattan and shelter in a cabin on the coast of Maine. In a small town they navigate big feelings. As the sea churns around them, the world stands still. What’s next?

Tell Me Everything by Elizabeth Strout

Book, Kindle, Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook Included with Premium Membership on Spotify

Lucy, still living with William in Crosby, Maine meets Olive Kitteridge, the prickly heroine of Strout’s Publitzer-Prize-winning book, and forms a deeper friendship with Bob Burgess from Lucy by the Sea as the town tries to solve a murder.

Still Life With Bread Crumbs by Ann Quinlenn

Book, Kindle, Audiobook on Amazon

A photographer whose career is slipping moves from NYC to a cabin in upstate New York where she finds inspiration and love. It’s not as Hallmark as it sounds — more Virgin River.

Swamp Story: A Novel by Dave Barry

Audiobook on Amazon

Audiobook on Spotify

From the book description because nobody tells a story like Dave…

Jesse Braddock is trapped in a tiny cabin deep in the Everglades with her infant daughter and her ex-boyfriend, a wannabe reality TV star who turned out to be a lot prettier on the outside than on the inside. Broke and desperate for a way out, Jesse stumbles across a long-lost treasure, which could solve all her problems—if she can figure out how to keep it. The problem is some very bad men are also looking for the treasure, and they know Jesse has it.

Meanwhile, Ken Bortle of Bortle Brothers Bait and Beer has hatched a scheme to lure tourists to his failing store by making viral videos of the “Everglades Melon Monster.” The Monster is, in fact, an unemployed alcoholic newspaperman named Phil wearing a Dora the Explorer costume head. Incredibly, this plan actually works, inspiring a horde of TikTokers to swarm into the swamp in search of the Monster at the same time villains are on the hunt for Jesse’s treasure. Amid this mayhem, a presidential hopeful arrives in the Everglades to start his campaign. Needless to say, it does not go as planned. In fact, nothing in this story goes as planned. This is, after all, Florida.

Favorite Things: Podcasts

Wiser Than Me with Julia Louis-Dreyfus

On Spotify and all podcast platforms

I LOVE this podcast where the wise-cracking actress gets “schooled” by women she admires. My favorite episodes so far are interviews with Jane Fonda, Anne Lamott, Jane Goodall, Ina Garten, Isabel Allende, and Carol Burnett. 

In my queue: Sally Field, Amy Tan, Bonnie Raitt, Ina Garten, Gloria Steinhem, Rita Moreno, Nancy Pelosi, and Julie Andrews.

Meaningful Conversations with Maria Shriver

On Spotify and all podcast platforms

Though recorded in 2019, Maria’s topics are timeless. Interesting episodes I’ve enjoyed so far are with Rob Lowe, Martha Beck, Kathie Lee Gifford, and Chelsea Handler. In my queue: Brene Brown, Hoda Kotb, Jon and Dorothea Bon Jovi.

I also follow Maria’s Sunday Paper where she just posted Jane Fonda’s inteverview on CBS Morning on rethinking aging:

Favorite Things: Movies

Gladiator 2

I’ve been waiting to see this movie since I saw it being filmed when I was in Morocco. It was a great sequel to Gladiator, and I’ll never forget sharks — yeah, sharks — in the Colosseum.

A Complete Unknown

Great portrayal of Bob Dylan and Joan Baez. Her “Diamonds and Rust” was inspired by their relationship, and though Johnny and June Cash are known for “It Ain’t Me Babe,” I get now why it better fits Dylan, the songwriter.


Favorite Things: Streaming

The Chosen

The Chosen has broken records for crowd-funding, translations, streaming views, and box office. Still, I was hesitant to try it. I’ve been disappointed in Jesus’ portrayal in every other movie. Other actors/scripts made him so otherworldly, so aloof in perfection, so like the adage “too heavenly minded for earthly good.” Son of God came closer to the compassionate Jesus I know. The actor Diogo Morgado was beautiful but like the others, dramatic. Something didn’t ring true.

I finally tried the first episode of The Chosen. Compelling but dark. A few weeks later, I gave the series another try. I’ve been binging Seasons 1 – 4 since. I appreciate that the series fleshes out the people who followed Christ closest — their flaws, fears, faith, and doubt. How intimately he knew each person — choosing them for their diversity and willingness to learn rather than their accomplishments. How often their questions are my questions. Even better, Jesus was fleshed out. He was a down-to-earth teacher and engaging storyteller. He led with grace, strength, and humor. He cared about all people — not just the Jews — as seen in the clip below. Likewise, the actor is gracious, humble, and fun whether speaking with fans in interviews from Fox News to The View.

To me, this is the greatest story ever told — it makes life not just better, but best. Worth living. I’m glad the series does it the justice it deserves. In a time when so many assume the party line/position based on cultural and political definitions of “Christian” formed in echo chambers… at a time when bad things are done under that name… the series reminds me that Christ’s time on earth was fraught with those same things. Seeing a closer depiction of the One I’ve known since middle school as he baffles religious and political leaders — even disciples who are just human — gives me hope. It makes me smile and cry. It helps me remember that though there’s so much I don’t understand, ultimately and forever, Love wins.

The series is now on Prime but rotates between all the major platforms so it’s easy to find. Season 5 of the series is to return — first in theaters — in March-April 2025.

Favorite Things: Theater

Broadway’s Moulin Rouge!

The show was an early birthday gift from my sister and brother-in-law. The Grammy-nominated music — even better than in the movie with additions by Adele, Katy Perry, Sia, Rihanna, and Beyonce — had the crowd on their feet. See tour stops in 2025 here.

Favorite Things: Encore Series Worth Watching Again

Ally McBeal

Streaming on Hulu, Ally McBeal‘s back with courtroom drama, fantasy sequences, and a quirky cast. Calista Flockhart plays Ally, the lead (my Enneagram 4 Soul Sister) whose looking for love and finds it for awhile with guest stars Roberth Downey, Jr. and Jon Bon Jovi. Other guests include Barry White, Al Green, Mariah Carey, Josh Groban, Tina Turner, Sting, Elton John Farrah Fawcett, Anne Heche. 

Queen Charlotte

I’ve been enthralled with the storylines, costumes, and sets of Seasons 1 -3 of Bridgerton, but the series’ prequel — the love story between Queen Charlotte and King George — slays me.

Encore Movies to Watch With Children

Mary Poppins

As much as I appreciate Ms. Rachel (an excellent educational program) and enjoy Bluey! (a brilliant Australian cartoon that’s fun for adults, too), there comes a time in every parent or grandparent’s life to slip a Disney classic into the mix. The one that has held my one-year-old grandson’s attention throughout is Mary Poppins. He’s a music fan and watching it again, I understand why it gets a 97% on Rotten Tomatoes. The film, like the main character, t is “perfect in every way.”

Favorite Things for Babies (From My 1st Year as Nana)

Playlist for Play or Story Time

Playlist for Naptime

Toys for Little Musicians: Piano with Amazing Sound, Musical Instruments, Allegro: Musical Journey Through 11 Masterpieces, Baby Einstein Musical Mix and Roll

Comfortable Clothes by Kate Quinn

Uber Soft, Absorbent Diapers — available at Target or Amazon.

  • Perfect for Travel: Designed for sensitive skin with innovative RashShield™ Protection, reducing irritation during long flights or car travel.
  • Absolutely No Chlorine: Made with ultra-soft materials that are completely removed of chlorine and harsh chemicals, ensuring gentle care for delicate skin.
  • Eco-Friendly Materials: Sustainable, high-quality materials let parents choose an eco-conscious option.

For Moms or Nanas needing arch support for strolling or running with baby: ASICS Yay Gel Kayano 29 Running Shoes — come in 20+ colors

Favorite Things: Travel Destinations for the Family

Costa Rica

Florida

Colorado


Meet One of the Most Fascinating Moms in History, Josephine Baker, at Riad Star

Meet One of the Most Fascinating Moms in History, Josephine Baker, at Riad Star

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Updated on May 1, 2023

Riad Star, Marrakech Medina
Photo Courtesy of Riad Star

Here’s to an icon who should be celebrated beyond Black History Month, Women’s History Month, and Mother’s Day. I’m forever grateful for the invitation to stay in Josephine Baker’s former Moroccan home. Like many women, she found rest and strength to reinvent herself in Morocco. If you need inspiration, try on a bit of Josephine Baker at Riad Star. When I raided the library, I discovered a missing part of my education. I met a superstar, a spy, a hero, and a mother. She was the only woman who spoke at the March on Washington alongside Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in 1968. When he was killed, Corette Scott King asked Josephine to take his place. She declined, saying that her children were “too young to lose their mother.”

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When people ask How? Why? I moved to Morocco sight unseen, I think to myself, I didn’t.  Though I’d never been to Africa, my soul brimmed with vivid images from exotic Arabian tales my grandmother read to me from my dad’s childhood book.IMG_8289

I was lured by sultry desert tents, regal riads, and secret gardens where princes and princesses lounged in plush, cushioned comfort.  In my imagination, birds sang by day and lanterns glowed by night in arched Andalusian courtyards of fabulous fountains, mosaic tile, and intricately carved woodwork.  I was meant to come here — a place where so many desires of my heart have been fulfilled for which I am forever grateful.

Likewise, for some time I felt drawn to the Moroccan home of Josephine Baker, Queen of the Jazz Age.  I was first attracted by the place and a moment in time — the blending of beautiful Marrakesh design with an era I’ve loved since I was a little girl dressing up in my grandmother’s drop waist dresses and pumps.  As an adult obsessed with Post- World War I Paris expats and Harlem Renaissance artists, I teach The Great Gatsby, The Sun Also Rises, and Jazz, and when living in the US had students play dress up, too, for our annual ’20s Day event.

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I finally stayed at Riad Star and met  “Jazz Cleopatra,” the legend for whom the boutique hotel is named.

I now realize that what drew me there was more than one period of history.  It was a Renaissance Woman who before and beyond Harlem and the 20s never stopped changing, growing, giving, and overcoming.  A woman of tenacity and tenderness.

You can meet Josephine Baker at Riad Star by trying on the banana skirt that made her famous as well as her flapper-era frocks…

Closeup of Josephine Baker's beaded dress at Riad Star
Closeup of Josephine Baker’s beaded dress at Riad Star
Josephine Baker's dress at Riad Star
Queen of the Jazz Age

Josephine Baker’s beaded dress at Riad Star

Joesphine's Baker's hat, dress, cape at Riad Star
Queen of the Stage and a Mistress of the House

You can meet Josephine Baker at Riad Star in many ways. When Aziz greeted me at the taxi, walked me to the riad, and placed my bag in her very suite, The Josephine Room, I was in awe.   There, under a photograph of Josephine’s close friend, Grace Kelly, my favorite American Hollywood actress since I was a teen…

Photo of Princess Grace of Monaco in Josephine Baker sutie at Riad Star
Grace Kelly, Princess of Monaco, was Josephine Baker’s lifelong friend.

You can meet Josephine Baker at Riad Star by devouring her biographies. I found book on her life in my room and the library downstairs. Like Own Wilson in Midnight in Paris (a movie where a writer returns to the Jazz Age and meets Ernest Hemingway, Josephine Baker, Salvador Dali, and other icons of the Roaring 20s), I was transported to the Jazz Age and met my fascinating host …

Josephine Baker's pink dress at Riad Star
Josephine Baker’s dress
biographies on Josephine Baker at Riad Star Morocco

In the afternoon sun on the rooftop

near the cool courtyard,

and under the covers at night,

like Owen Wilson in Midnight in Paris I was transported to another time.

There  I discovered a new treasure in Marrakesh..the “Black Pearl”…the “Bronze Venus” who Ernest Hemingway, her fellow expat in Paris, called “the most sensational woman anyone ever saw.”

Statue at Riad Star

Before Beyonce…

Or Rihanna

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Or Angelina Jolie…

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Framed photo at Riad Star of Josephine and her children

You can meet Josephine Baker at Riad Star by studying the framed photos of the mom who energetically entertained crowds for fifty years and raised her “Rainbow Tribe.”

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Framed photo at Riad Star and her family
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Josephine said when called “beautiful”:  “Beautiful?  It’s all a question of luck.  I was born with good legs.  As for the rest…beautiful, no.  Amusing…yes.”
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Baker was the first black woman to star in a major motion picture,  Zouzou (1934) and to become a world-famous entertainer.  A superstar before Marilyn or Madonna, Josephine was named in 2012  Time magazine in the Top 100 Fashion Icons of All Time.

Likewise she was muse for artists and intellectuals of the 1930s such as  Picasso, Pirandello, Georges Roualt, Le Corbusier, and e.e. cummings.  Dance Magazine explained the allure of  Josephine — the “geometry” of her oval head and lithe body — during the Cubist and Art Deco movements, both influenced by  African art and sculpture. You can meet Josephine Baker at Riad Star where you’re immersed in artistic eras she inspired.

A World War II spy for the French Resistance, Josephine Baker was awarded the Croix de Guerre and the Légion d’Honneur by General Charles de Gaulle and the Rosette of the Résistance. At her death, she was mourned in Paris by 20,000 people including Princess Grace who gathered for her funeral procession. She was buried with military honors in Monaco, a place she and her family visited often as guests of the royal family.

Joséphine Baker en uniforme de l’Armée de l’Air française en 1948

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A civil rights activist, she was the only woman who spoke at the 1963 March on Washington alongside Martin Luther, King.  She told the crowd that day:
You are on the eve of a complete victory. You can’t go wrong. The world is behind you.  

Later she said of her personal victory:

Until the March on Washington, I always had this little feeling in my stomach. I was always afraid. I couldn’t meet white American people. I didn’t want to be around them. But now that little gnawing feeling is gone. For the first time in my life I feel free. I know that everything is right now. 

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Josephine in Washington with Lena Horne

And for a time, she lived in Marrakesh in a room I just stayed in.

Mike and Lucie Wood, British owners of Marrakech Riad, added Riad Star in 2010 to their collection of boutique hotels in the medina.  Mike explained their mission:

We bought our first riad (Riad Cinnamon)  in 2005 after I was introduced to Marrakech by a Moroccan friend.  We are passionate about introducing our guests to Moroccan culture, especially first-time visitors. As well as the riads we are very involved in a charity which we founded with another English couple.   It’s called Henna Cafe and has an active programme of education.  

The Pasha Thami el Glaoui formerly owned what is now Riad Star,  a guest annex to the palace which is now the Marrakech museum.  Mike says  he learned Josephine Baker stayed there when talking to a neighbor.  The people of Derb Alilich still remember her warmth and  she appreciated theirs.  In the Josephine Room there’s a window looking onto the street–nonexistent in most riads where windows, doors, and balconies face inward toward private courtyards. It is believed the Pasha of Marrakech paid children to sit outside Josephine’s window and read for her while she was convalescing after a nineteen-month stay at a hospital in Casablanca in 1941-42.

Mike Wood says of the purchase:

The restoration was extensive and took two years with a team of highly skilled local craftsmen.  We did not really change much except adding the rolling roof which is very practical and putting in more bathrooms.  

Ah, but the details the Woods added are symbolic of a spirit whose beauty, sensitivity, and toughness transcended adversity.  There are nine rooms at Riad Star, each named for a part of Josephine’s life, such as the Jazz room, Paris room, Chiquita room, and Rainbow room.  Though historically themed, each room has modern conveniences, such as refrigerators, WiFi, and flat-screen televisions.

Artwork ar Riad Star
Artwork at Riad Star

Josephine Baker costumes Riad Star

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Book in the Riad Star library

Photo of Josephine’s family at Riad Star

Josephine was born in 1906 in St. Louis to Carrie McDonald, daughter of former slaves, and vaudeville drummer Eddie Carson who carried her onstage when she was a toddler but left the family soon after. She cleaned houses and tended children for white families who told her not to kiss the babies.  One mistress burned her hands for using too much soap when washing clothes.  At age twelve she began a waitressing job at The Old Chauffeur’s Club which led to being married off unsuccessfully at thirteen.   At fifteen she was noticed for her street dancing and recruited for vaudeville. After witnessing the St. Louis race riots and experiencing abusive treatment which led to a time she lived on the streets and ate from trash bins, she moved to New York City during the Harlem Renaissance and performed at the Plantation Club.  As the last girl in the chorus line, her role was to make the audience laugh–something she loved doing her entire life.  But in 1925 Paris she moved from last to superstardom overnight when she opened in  La Revue Nègre at the Theatre des Champs-Elysees.  Continuing to amaze crowds with her sensual dances, costumes, and charisma, by 1927 she earned more than any entertainer in Europe.  And then she took on another continent…

In Josephine: The Hungry Heart,  Jean-Claude Baker, and Chris Chase wrote of Josephine’s “Arabian Nights” when “she came to Northern Africa with twenty-eight pieces of luggage and her animals.”  Before she adopted twelve children from various countries (she suffered miscarriages and “many surgeries” trying to have her own and a complication that confined her to the Casablanca hospital ), she had a menagerie consisting of Chiquita, her famous leopard she walked on a leash;  Ethel, a chimpanzee; Albert, a pig; Kiki, a snake, and a goat, parrot, parakeets, fish three cats and seven dogs.  In Morocco, her monkeys played in the orange trees.

floral leather coat at Riad Star

You can meet Josephine Baker at Riad Star in the exotic, colorful signature Moroccan way of life all around. Her son records accounts of his mother’s time at Riad Star :

Every morning, as soon as the birds started singing, Josephine was up and running around  in the buff going to the kitchen to help the servants cook… The house had four bedrooms—one which had her big brass bed from France… She adopted Arab customs. She liked eating with her hands, wearing the loose djelleba, going with her maids to the hammam, the Turkish baths, once a week.

….And wasn’t it queer that Josephine, who had spent her childhood dreaming of kings in golden slippers, should find herself there? In a place where, even more amazingly, racial discrimination did not exist? Thami el Glaousi, pasha of Marrakesh and the most powerful tribal chieftain in French Morocco at that time, was himself black.

From northern Africa, Josephine was safe from Nazi racism.  Langston Hughes wrote she “was as much a victim of Hitler as the soldiers who fall in Africa today fighting his armies.  The Aryans drove Josephine away from her beloved Paris.” Nonetheless, while in Africa as she’d done throughout Europe, Josephine continued entertaining troops for Charles de Gaulle and carrying information for the Allied forces from Spain.  Among the dignitaries who visited her while in the hospital in Casa was Jacques Abtrey, Head of Intelligence against the Germans.  Outside as a military parade with American, French, and Moroccan troops marched by, he and Josephine toasted with champagne.  He recalls: “We raised our glasses to America, to England, and to our eternal France.”

Bennetta Jules-Rosette, Director of the African and African-American Studies Research Center at the University of California – San Diego and author of Josephine Baker in Art and Life: The Icon and the Image wrote of Josephine making Paris her home and learning not only French but Italian and Russian:

As a black woman, had she stayed in the United States, she could not have accomplished what she did….She never made a Hollywood film.  But at the same time she was recording in France, you had the likes of Hattie McDaniel playing maids in Gone with the Wind…[She] was among the early path-breakers to use performance celebrity for political ends.

When in the US she refused to perform in venues that did not admit minorities.  Says Jules-Rosette: “She was the first person to desegregate the Las Vegas casinos, not Frank Sinatra and Sammy Davis Jr.”

Still, in 1951 she was refused admittance to some hotels and restaurants, and when she charged the Stork Club in New York City of racism when the owner would not serve her, she was placed on the  FBI watch list and lost her US citizenship rights for over a decade. In 1963 she returned with the help of Attorney General Robert Kennedy to speak at the March on Washington.  She told the crowd:

You know I have always taken the rocky path…I never took the easy one, but as I get older, and as I knew I had the power and the strength, I took that rocky path and I tried to smooth it out a little. I wanted to make it easier for you. I want you to have a chance at what I had. 

Summing up her journey, Josephine said:  “I did take the blows [of life], but I took them with my chin up, in dignity, because I so profoundly love and respect humanity…I believe in prayer. It’s the best way we have to draw strength from heaven.”

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When not reading at Riad Star, I chatted over dinner with a lovely group of ladies on holiday from England.  All moms, they had decided to treat themselves to a girls’ getaway. For information on package deals including a Girls’ Getaway and other specialty escapes, go here.  

The next morning, I spent breakfast with a little bird by the pool, then took off with Aziz to see two other properties owned by the Woods. I’m a fan of Girls’ Getaways and solo travel. Women need safe, peaceful places — especially when in need of a reset or reinvention.

Breakfast at Riad Star
Breakfast at Riad Star

Though all guests are provided a downloadable App and cell phone to navigate the medina, after two years here and still taking wrong turns at times in the medina, I was thrilled Aziz was happy to walk me to and from the taxi as well as show me two other riads.

Les Nomades of Marrakech carpets
Right around the corner from Riad Star is a gigantic Moroccan rug shop called Les Nomades of Marrakech. See inside here.
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Local neighborhood in Marrakech medina
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The Marrakesh medina is a window to antiquity and to modern local life.

Riad Cinnamon has five suites, each named for a city in Morocco: Fez, Essaouira, Chefchaouen, Casablanca, and Meknes.  Since I’ve been to all but Meknes, four of the rooms transported me to fine Morocco Moments across the country.

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Riad Cinnamon couch

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Sweet sleeping area at Riad Cinnamon

After raiding my grandmother’s trunk for dress up clothes, I’d wear them out into her garden to watch butterflies playing in the flowers.   At Riad Papillon (Riad Butterly), imagination takes flight in rooms named for blooms, such as Bougainvillea, Jasmine, and Rose known to attract those feathery-winged wonders.  The riad is just off Dar El Bacha, one of my favorite shopping streets in the souks, while Star and Cinnamon are just around corners from Merdersa Ben Youseff, a medina must-see. All are also near the Spice Square and Henna Cafe.

Riad Papillon entrane sign

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Riad Papillon courtyard is so pretty… the picture of sunshine and butterflies.
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An Alladin-style fireplace for winter nights at Riad Papillon.

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Riad Papilon

I enjoyed the morning and my Midnight in Marrakesh experience. HBO’s 1991 movie, The Jordan Baker Story, winner of five Emmys and a Golden Globe now tops my list of must-see films.  In “My Josephine Baker” her son explains in The New York Times how and why he had to write a biography of her: “When she died, something was taken from me. I suffered a loss and I wanted to know who she was, that woman I had seen in so many ways, sometimes a criminal, sometimes a saint.”

When she passed away in 1975, no doubt there were mixed opinions of her because she was– and her critics are– after all, human.  Her legacy lives on in Riad Star in the Red City where others find rest and shelter and at the Henna Cafe that promotes appreciation of diversity, cross-cultural communication, and understanding.  Though Josephine left school to work as a child, she later learned French, Russian, and Italian, an inspiration to language learners everywhere.

Cindy McCain Southern Girl Gone Global at Riad Star Marrakesh

Thank you to Riad Star for the hospitality.  As always, the opinions here are my own.

Best Souvenirs When Traveling Abroad Are New Recipes

Best Souvenirs When Traveling Abroad Are New Recipes

Note: I have updated this post while retaining its original context. It was written originally published March 31, 2020 — that time when the world shut down. These food, drink, and music experiences I brought home from abroad continue to provide warm memories, comfort, and escape.

First and foremost, I pray for those fighting the Coronavirus around the world, families grieving loved ones, and all feeling global angst and loss. I pray for protection for those on the front lines, like my daughter and sister in patient care, first responders, and grocery store employees who are caring and kind. I pray for wisdom for researchers seeking a vaccine, leaders around the world, all of us facing something so frightening, evasive, new. 

COVID-19 has stolen income. It has postponed or canceled lifelong dreams. Instead of graduation and milestone birthday celebrations with families…  honeymoon dinners in piazzas…  spring break escapes overlooking azure seas, we are on lockdown—many in solitary seclusion — practicing social distancing. We never dreamed going to the grocery (for those of us able) would be our only “getaway” where we hold our breath, swerve to miss other shoppers, and shake our heads at empty shelves.

We need to cook and stay in. Meal planning needs to be strategic so when we brave the store we can get in and get out. But when we can’t find our default foods we’re too overwhelmed with all that is swirling around us to be creative. Sometimes we’re too distracted and tired to even think.

March 2020 proved a 19th-century proverb wrong — the one that says if the month comes in like a lion it will go out like a lamb. Tornados ripped through Nashville on March 3 and made global headline news. Since then COVID-19 has ravaged much of the US and the world.

I started the month trying three times to outrun the outbreak. When my travel blogging conference in Sicily was canceled last minute (thankfully, given the crisis that hit full force a week later),  I considered using my connecting flight to New York City and spending spring break there. When the Coronavirus was reported there, I booked a flight to Florida but canceled within 24 hours because they were being hit, too.  For most of us, there’s nowhere else to run and home is the only place to hide.

But we’re also learning that being grounded can be grounding.

The university classes I teach have gone remote for the rest of the year, and with no more commuting, I have more time and technology to be in touch with those I love.  I’ve traveled via books and movies which I suggested here and discovered some new music that sweeps me away.

I’ve remembered teaching English in a small village in Italy one summer and my own childhood where families ate hot lunches together in the middle of the day. So I’ve been cooking more and through food, music, and memories, returned to some of my favorite places.  It started when I canceled birthday reservations at an Irish pub and made my first corned beef brisket at home. 

Below are ways to make cooking an adventure, meal planning easier, and eating more fun. I’ve included links for delivery for those who can’t get out/ feel safer not doing so, such as moms with children in tow.

First, make a space to breathe, a nook for relaxing and enjoying what you cook.

For almost three weeks I’ve gone nowhere except to buy groceries and my birthday present—  plants for my patio — knowing it would become my home office and world.  Spring rains have made everything I see Ireland-green grass and pink blooming trees. As the bulbs push through soil in Italy-blue pots around me, and the natural world comes back to life again, I’m reminded daily to trust God who sees what I can’t… knows what I don’t. 

But this I do know. Neighbors I’d never seen before have come out of their homes. They are walking and playing as families six feet away. They smile, wave, and nod at Ella (my yellow lab mix) and me. The world — once a blur of motion — has slowed down for many and the value of health, relationships, connection has come sharper into focus. 

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These are some recipes I’ve made during lockdown. I’ve also included cooking playlists —  links from Spotify and Amazon Prime Music members can stream for free. 

Several of these ingredients are used in more than one dish. I shop multiple groceries–especially now when some shelves are bare–but have linked to Whole Foods and Amazon Fresh organic products for health and convenience. Those with Amazon Prime can get groceries delivered free–important to many during self-quarantine but also a reason why they may be out of some of these products periodically and locations/terms of delivery may change. 

Disclosure: SouthernGirlGoneGlobal has an affiliate relationship with Amazon. If you make a purchase from an Amazon link in this post, I will receive a small commission which does not affect your cost but helps a bit to keep this blog going.

One more thing…I’m also a big believer in improvisation. While living in Morocco without a car and some ingredients I needed for recipes, I learned to substitute or do without. When I wanted to make clam chowder, one of my go-to comfort foods, I couldn’t find clams. No worries–I used shrimp which were plentiful and inexpensive. Thankfully my grandmother taught me that cooking isn’t an exact science. It’s “a little of this, a little of that.” 

With the right music while cooking… a dance in the kitchen… and a pretty place setting (pun intended), we can exhale calm. We can taste escape… and hope.

Switzerland

Playlist: Music to wake you up and want to dance on Amazon

My first trip to Europe was with my students in the early 90s, a Grand Tour of England, France, Austria, Germany, and Switzerland.  Standing on my balcony in the Swiss Alps between snow-capped peaks and Lake Lucerne, I drew in a long breath of cool, clean air to the jingle of cowbells.  I wondered later as I climbed under the crisp, white down duvet if I’d stay warm enough–it was so lightweight!–but I did and have slept under nothing since. I met the group in the regal dining room the next morning where sunlight streamed through large windows spotlighting a sumptuous spread.  We’d been told we’d have only “continental breakfasts” on our tour so not to expect eggs, bacon and biscuits, staples in the southern US. In London, we’d had dinner rolls every morning, in Paris croissants served with butter and jam. But in Switzerland at a hotel/hospitality training school, waiters in white served fresh fruit, marmalade, and plates of delicious cheeses and cold meats– sausages, salami, hams. It was the beginning of a love affair I still have with charcuterie served any time of day. 

Breakfast (Zmorge, Swiss German for “in the morning”)

Spain

Spanish Guitar and Pablo Segovia Gardel on Amazon Music and Soundtrack of Vicky Cristina Barcelona on Spotify  

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Above: Sangria with lunch here

If you have shifted to a later sleeping/waking schedule, you can imagine you are in Spain. There breakfast starts around 10 AM, lunch at 2 PM, tapas (appetizers) and drinks late afternoon/early evening, and dinner at 10 PM. I love the food culture, climate, people from Vigo to Madrid , across Andalusia and Catalonia … everything about Spain

Tapas and Sangria

Using items above on another night, make a charcuterie board for a light dinner.  Add nuts, like Marcona almonds, olives, hot peppers and roasted Brussels sprouts.

Recipe for Roasted Brussels Sprouts

Cut Brussels sprouts in half and place on a roasting pan.  Sprinkle with minced garlic (3-4 cloves), salt, and paprika, then drizzle with olive oil. Back at 400 degrees about 20 minutes or until tender. Pair. with Spanish wine or sangria (recipe below).

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Roasted Brussel Sprouts

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Italian variation added: prosciutto and cantaloupe

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Sangria in Barcelona

Red Sangria (our family favorite for summer and Christmas, too)

Ingredients

  • Bottle of Red wine (Spanish wine recommended but I’ve used merlot or cabs, too)
  • Orange and Mango Juice
  • 1/4. cup of brandy
  • Dash of club soda
  • 1 orange
  • 1 apple
  • And if you like, throw in a few strawberries, blackberries, and a dash of cinnamon, too.

Morocco

Playlist: Morocco, Traditional Music Around the World and Berber Musicians of Morocco on Spotify

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Asilah, Morocco is a relaxing getaway just 45 minutes from Tangier.

In Morocco, I taught at the American School of Marrakesh which had no cafeteria. Students’ hot lunches were delivered by drivers or they packed cold ones as I did. All produce was organic and sold in the grocery markets, hanuts (Moroccan form of minute markets) and on fruit and vegetable carts. Fresh produce coupled with having no car and walking everywhere made me feel more fit than ever. Lunches were salads and clementines ( peeled and eaten like candy or sliced and sprinkled with cinnamon). Oranges, lemons, tomatoes, peppers, cucumbers, and mint for tea (or for expats, mojitos 🙂 were available year-round. 

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Clementines

I no longer make coffee on the stovetop in an expresso maker, but I have still squeezed oranges for fresh juice since living in Marrakesh. I use an older model of this Juiceman (see photo below).

Oranges at Acima in Marrakesh Morocco

Salads

(Left) Strawberries in season, avocado, and balsamic vinegar

(Right) Sliced Tomatoes, Green Peppers, and Cucumbers with Vinegar and Olive Oil. 

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Olives

These guys are ubiquitous in Morocco, found in bowls on restaurant tables beside loaves of bread. At school, the elementary teachers loved the shade of the olive trees at recess but had to keep watch over students tempted to pelt each other with olives. I’ve thought a lot lately about a  Thanksgiving spent at Peacock Pavillions when Maryam Montague decorated the table with olive branches, symbols of simplicity and peace. She spoke about another global crisis–that of refugees and displaced people groups.

Moroccan Tagine

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A tagine is a traditional dish named for the the clay pot in which vegetables, fruits, and meats are cooked on a stovetop or open fire. It is loved for its savory-sweetness in modest homes, restaurants, and palaces  throughout the country. I ate lamb, chicken, and vegetarian tagines with friends from Marrakesh  (where our  favorite waiter at Chez Joel and favorite manager at Riad Mur Akush uncovered the dish with ceremonious flair) to the Sahara desert gathered on the ground family-style in a Berber tent. 

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While living in Marrakesh I made only one tagine because my housekeeper, Sayida, made the dish for me often.  I did enjoy the lesson at the La Maison Arabe Cooking School, and when a former student and friend visited me, they enjoyed learning from the ladies at the Amal Center. Last week I craved comfort, so I made my first tagine unsupervised. Sayida would probably roll her eyes at me with a grin, but I spiced it up and loved it.

Maison Arabe Cooking School

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Tagine at the Amal Center

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Sayida always made me enough couscous and tagine to last me a week.

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My first unsupervised Moroccan tagine

Ingredients:

*Optional: 

  • Add lamb, beef or chicken. I used 2 chicken breasts, skin removed cut into square pieces
  • Serve over Couscous –made on stovetop or in microwave

Spray or rub lightly the inside of the crockpot with olive oil. Layer vegetables in the bottom of the crockpot. Place meat (optional) and prunes on top. Mix seasonings with garlic, tomato paste, and broth, then pour over all. 

The best couscous I’ve ever had was at Riad Hikaya. Making it like they do is on my Cooking Bucket List.

Italy 

Playlist: French and Italian Cooking Music (one of my favorites of all time) on Sptofiy

Tuscany

The first recipe below I learned in a cooking class with Chef Paulette who just published The Easy Italian Cookbook: 100 Quick and Authentic Recipes. I’ve been a fan of hers and of Italy for decades. Sicily would have been my ninth trip. When lockdown is lifted, if you are anywhere near Nashville, take one of her classes.

Spaghetti with Fresh Tomatoes and Anchovy Butter (with slight variations–I used gluten-free pasta, added shrimp and red pepper flakes, and halved original recipe.)

Boil the pasta. Saute the anchovy paste and garlic in hot, melted butter and oil in a saute pan.  Cook for 2 minutes and add 2 Tablespoons of pasta water. Add tomatoes and cook until they pop. Drain pasta and mix with other ingredients in a saute pan. Add shrimp and red pepper flakes (if desired) and parsley until all is heated through. 

*For another easy, super-fast pasta dish, mix a jar of pesto and 8 ounces of pasta. Eat hot or cold.

Tuscan White Bean Soup (for those last rainy spring days)

  • ¼ cup olive oil
  • 1/2 onion minced 
  • 2 stalks celery diced
  • 1/2 cup carrots diced
  • 5 cloves garlic chopped
  • 1 can diced tomatoes
  • 2 cans white or cannellini beans
  • ½ teaspoon rosemary
  • ¼ teaspoon thyme
  • 1 bay leaf
  • 2 1/2 cups vegetable stock
  • Pepper to taste (or ¼ teaspoon red pepper flakes if you want more heat)
  • Improv: add a cup of chopped baby spinach, 4 ounces of diced pancetta or bacon , splash of white wine

Heat 1 T olive oil over medium-high heat. Cook onion until soft for about 2 minutes. Add carrots and celery, then garlic. Add a splash of wine if desired. Cook until soft, about 5 minutes. Add beans, tomatoes, and stock. Simmer, covered, until vegetables are tender (about 10- 15 minutes). 

France 

French Playlists by Charles AznavourJacqueline Taieb, Serge Gainsbourg, Edith Piaf,  stream free on Amazon Prime

Coq au Riesling

Coq au Riesling has been a “Cooking for Company” dish since 2013 when I posted about it.  It was created by Nigel Slater –check out other delicious dishes on his website (and yes, he is English, not French)–and was reprinted on the Simply Delicious blog . I’ve changed measurements below to US equivalents, and rather than use parsley, I use rosemary and thyme. I’ve often used Sauvignon Blanc rather than Riesling because I’m more likely to have it on hand.

  • 2 ounces butter
  • splash of olive oil
  • 2 onions finely chopped
  • 4 bacon/pancetta sliced into thin strips (I dice.)
  • 4 garlic cloves thinly sliced
  • 8 chicken pieces on the bone (thighs or drumsticks)
  • 8 ounces portabella mushrooms sliced
  • 500 ml (⅔ of bottle) Riesling or dry white wine of your choice
  • 8 ounces cream (heavy or half and half)
  • salt & pepper to taste
  • handful chopped parsley (I use rosemary and thyme instead.)
  1. Melt the butter and oil together in a large pan.
  2. Brown the chicken pieces all over and remove from the pan.
  3. Add the onions and bacon and allow to fry until the onions are soft and translucent and the bacon has rendered its fat.
  4. Add the garlic and allow to saute for another 30 seconds before removing the mixture from the pan (leaving the fat behind).
  5. Add the mushrooms and allow to fry for 5 minutes.
  6. Add the onion and bacon mixture along with the browned chicken back to the pan.
  7. Pour in the wine and allow to come up to a boil. Turn down the heat and cover. Allow to simmer for 15-25 minutes or until the chicken is cooked through.
  8. After 15 minutes, uncover, turn up the heat and add the cream. Allow to cook for another 10 minutes.
  9. Add the chopped parsley and season to taste.
  10. Serve with rice, pasta or crusty bread.

If the only recipe or ritual you take from this post is to peel an orange and let its juicy goodness run down your wrist while sitting  in a spot of sunlight… mission accomplished. From Elizabeth Gilbert, a woman who inspired me to make the leap and live abroad… a word on the art of cooking and eating from her Eat, Pray, Love

There’s another wonderful Italian expression: l’arte d’arrangiarsi—the art of making something out of nothing. The art of turning a few simple ingredients into a feast, or a few gathered friends into a festival. Anyone with a talent for happiness can do this, not only the rich…

I walked home to my apartment and soft-boiled a pair of fresh brown eggs for my lunch. I peeled the eggs and arranged them on a plate beside the seven stalks of the asparagus (which were so slim and snappy they didn’t need to be cooked at all). I put some olives on the plate, too, and the four knobs of goat cheese I’d picked up yesterday from the formaggeria down the street, and two slices of pink, oily salmon. For dessert—a lovely peach, which the woman at the market had given to me for free and which was still warm from the Roman sunlight. For the longest time I couldn’t even touch this food because it was such a masterpiece of lunch, a true expression of the art of making something out of nothing. Finally, when I had fully absorbed the prettiness of my meal, I went and sat in a patch of sunbeam on my clean wooden floor and ate every bite of it, with my fingers, while reading my daily newspaper article in Italian. Happiness inhabited my every molecule.

And as Easter, time of rebirth, nears, my prayer for us all is…

May the God of green hope fill you up with joy, fill you up with peace, so that your believing lives, filled with the life-giving energy of the Holy Spirit, will brim over with hope!–Romans 15:13

Vineyards in Montepulciano waiting with Italy and the world for spring to finally come

Staycation #10: Music Under the Magnolias


Spend summer under the magnolias at 2010 Jazz on the Lawn presented by the Tennessee Jazz and Blues Society and Belle Meade Plantation.

The series started strong last Sunday, June 13th with master trumpeter Rod McGaha. His band consisted of saxophonist Rahsaan Barber, bassist Jerry Navaroo, pianist Jody Nardone, and drummer Nioshi Jackson. Though the temperature was hot the band kept it cool with the fan favorites and new material. The crowd pleasers were toasted by water bottles free-for-all and stemware of the hardcore picnicking pack.

Belle Meade Plantation is located at 5025 Harding Pike. The concert is held ‘round back by the Carriage House. The gates open at 5 PM where tickets are sold, and the concert goes from 6-8. Lawn chairs and coolers are welcome. Cost is $10 for TJBS Members and $20 for non-members $20. For more information on performers below, discounts, and season passes, check out http://www.jazzblues.org. See lineup below.










Sunday, June 27: Stacy Mitchhart—Blues Favorite of Bourbon street Blues and Boogie Bar and B.B. King’s.

Sunday, July 11: Dana Robbins—Contemporary saxophonist who has worked with legends ranging from Aretha Franklin to Barry Manilow.

Sunday, July 25: Moe Denham All-Stars—the “undisputed Master of the Hammond B3 Organ,” he’ll play jazz and blues with Rahsaan Barber, Jim Williamson, Bob Sabelico, & Robert Bond. (I saw Moe for the first time last Wednesday at the French Quarter playing with Rahsaan Barber’s Trio Soul. Obviously talented, he’s also quite the character.) http://www.rahsaanbarber.com/live/

Sunday, August 8: 3rd Coast Vocals– a four- part vocal ensemble in the school of The Manhattan Transfer playing jazz classics and original pieces.

Sunday August 29: THE FABULOUS WOOTENS – “Nashville’s royal family of music” and a favorite of last year’s series are sure to rock the season finale.