Winter view of the outdoor mineral pools at Glenwood Hot Spring Resort Colorado.

The Most Meaningful Gift for Adult Children & Parents Is Time Away Together: Blueprint for a Beautiful Trip

A decade ago, U.S. News & World Report interviewed me about holiday minimalism (reining in retail gifts). What I said then I still believe: empty nesters and adult children don’t need more stuff to fill our homes. We need more time together to reconnect and reset while enjoying each other’s company. Not exchanging presents makes us fully present — offline and immersed in new experiences. By replacing boxes with boarding passes, my family has spent holidays in London, Marrakesh, and New Orleans. We’ve celebrated March birthdays in the North Carolina mountains, on Florida beaches, in L.A., the Mojave Desert, and Palm Springs. Different cultures stretch our minds. Nature challenges and relaxes our bodies. Beauty breaks for the soul lift our spirits and ground us in peace.

Honestly, I’ve never been able to afford lavish gifts and travel. I’ve been an educator for over 45 years. Higher prices on food, gas, goods, and services make holiday shopping even more stressful this year. Getting out of the kitchen and on the road with family is not only more fun but also a wise investment. Years after material gifts have been forgotten, sold on Facebook Marketplace, or carted off to Goodwill, we’ll be telling travel tales about shared adventures.

Cindy McCain at a Christmas pop-up bar in Denver, Colorado
Exploring Denver Christmas pop-ups with my son, Cole, beats shopping and wrapping presents any day.
Cindy and Cole in Georgetown CO

Parents and adult children become fellow explorers when navigating a new place. Trips that involve time in nature improve brain function, mental health, and emotional well-being. The anticipation of travel can boost happiness for weeks. Travel breaks routines, and novelty rewires our brains. So… if your family loves the sea, try a new beach town. If you’re a southerner who loves the mountains, instead of returning to the Smokies, Lewis-and-Clark your way west. If a family member has moved to a new city, meet there and start exploring the state.

Colorado Road Trips: A Guide to Mountain Magic in Any Season

I’m not a skier, but since my son moved to Denver in 2020, my Colorado Bucket List keeps growing and may never end. We love its urban energy while cheering on the Nuggets, eating our way through Christmas markets, biking to breweries, and watching for longhorns in the National Western Stock Show Kick-Off Parade. Currently, the Denver Art Museum is the only US venue hosting the DIVA exhibition from the Victoria and Albert Museum, London and Picasso: Magician, in collaboration with the Musée National Picasso–Paris. Also, in 2027 the Sundance Film Festival is making Boulder its new home.

My favorite Colorado experiences are road trips — talking, laughing, listening to music while marveling at diverse, gorgeous landscapes. In summer, fall, and winter, we’ve gone north to Boulder and Estes Park, south to Colorado Springs, but mostly pushed west to Red Rocks, Lookout Mountain, Golden, Silverthorne, Georgetown, Keystone, Breckingridge, and Vail. The Rocky Mountains are magical when covered in snow and when brimming with flowers and hummingbirds. My favorite “ski town” escapes are in the summer when there are few crowds and no humidity.

On our last road trip in Colorado, we headed for Glenwood Hot Springs Resort to soak in the world’s largest hot springs pool. The family-friendly, affordable option was the perfect base camp for Aspen. Thanks to a Colorado-born friend, we also added to the trip Maroon Bells, the most photographed peaks in the US, and the Continental Divide. The trip was breathtaking. National treasures. Natural wonders. A snake encounter and a haunted hotel. This Christmas, rather than exchanging gifts, we’re saving to return in Summer 2027 — this time with my daughter, her partner, and my three-year-old grandson.

On our last road trip, we started in Denver and hit the locations circled in blue. Towns circled in red are on our Colorado Bucket List. The other red dots are places we’ve previously been.

Getting There

Fly into the Denver airport, pick up a rental car, and take one of these options:

  1. Head west on I-70 for the fastest route to Glenwood Springs (160 miles).
  2. Take CO-82 to Independence Pass, the scenic route to the Continental Divide Summit (12,095 feet) (139 miles). Descend into Aspen (19 miles). Glenwood Springs is for lunch. We checked in at Glenwood Springs around 5, and headed for the pool.

Denver to Glenwood Springs via Independence Pass

Denver to Glenwood Springs via I-70

We traveled in August. Note: Independence Pass closes in late October/early November and reopens in late May. If you take it, be aware that you’ll be on a two-lane road with switchbacks that sometimes lack centerlines or guardrails. Vehicles over 35 feet are strictly prohibited. The road descends into Aspen. Check the Colorado Department of Transportation website for information on Independence Pass and alternative routes. The winter/alternative route that bypasses the high-altitude mountain pass is to take Highway 70 all the way to Glenwood Springs. From there, take CO-82 South into Aspen.

We returned to Denver on I-70 through Glenwood Canyon, carved by the Colorado River (the same river that, in part, carved the Grand Canyon). Driving through Glenwood Canyon’s 1,000-to-2,000-foot cliffs is a scenic route, too.

The Continental Divide: Standing on the Backbone of the Rockies

Cole and Cindy at the Continental Divide Colorado
August is chilly when standing on the Continental Divide.

Slicing through the Rocky Mountains, the Continental Divide sends melted snow west to the Pacific Ocean and east toward the Atlantic Ocean and Gulf of Mexico. Also called the Great Divide, it runs from Alaska to South America and through Glacier, Yellowstone, and Rocky Mountain National Parks. It is one of the few natural wonders in Colorado accessible without hiking. We parked on the side of the road at 12,000 feet. The view was incredible.

Aspen: Alpine Eateries, Art, and the John Denver Sanctuary

I love Vail, built in the 1960s as an Alpine Bavarian Village, for its European architecture and charm. I appreciate Aspen for its 19th-century Victorian buildings, resilient history, and spiritual roots.

For 800 years, the Ute Native Americans inhabited the Roaring Fork Valley. They believed the mountains, rivers, and mineral pools have spiritual energy. In 1879, prospectors found silver, and the town grew to 1200 residents. After the economic crash of 1893 until the 1930s, the population fell to less than 800 people.

The town was reborn when Walter and Elizabeth Paepcke founded the Aspen Institute. “The Aspen Idea” promotes nurturing the mind, body, and spirit for personal growth and better communities. For 70 years, the Aspen Ideas Festival has brought together diverse global thought leaders, policymakers, scientists, and artists to discuss significant issues related to health, climate and the economy. Everyone’s invited “to teach, inspire, question, and challenge.”

“Aspen was the perfect setting for music, art, education — all the things that make life worth living.”


– Elizabeth Paepcke, from “The Story of Aspen”

Aspen’s spiritual and material roots are still intertwined. Today the world’s most expensive ski town is populated with billionaires and Hollywood celebrities. Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell, Kevin Costner, and Tom Cruise own homes there. According to The Colorado Sun, the average cost of condos and townhouses in 2025 was $3.5 million, almost three times the median price of $1.2 a decade earlier. The median price of single-family homes is $13.2 million. Statewide, single-family homes average $584,000.

I wanted to experience Aspen off-season for the food, art, and, most of all, John Denver Sanctuary. I’ve been a fan of John Denver since I was in high school for his music and commitment to the environment and global citizenship. His song, “Calypso,” which honors sea life, is named after the ship of his good friend, Jacques Cousteau. In “Rocky Mountain High,” he sings about moving to Colorado at age 27 and feeling that he was home. My son felt that when he moved to Colorado at 27, too.

The Breathtaking Beauty of the Maroon Bells

If you’re in Aspen, you MUST see the Maroon Bells, the most photographed mountain peaks in North America. The Maroon Bells Welcome Center is located at the Aspen Highlands Ski Area, just 8 miles from downtown Aspen. Make reservations for parking at the Trailhead or taking the shuttle (which we did). We learned a lot about the area on the 15-minute ride up and back. There’s paid parking at the Center where you board the bus. E-bikers pay an amenity fee only. Note that the shuttle runs from mid-May to mid-October only. There are restrooms and a paved area that is stroller/wheelchair accessible to the lake.

Seeing ducks gliding on the lake, feeling the warmth of the sun, and looking up at 14,000-foot twin crimson mountains (tinted from iron oxidation over millions of years) is breathtaking. So was my climb up. Then down. In videos I’d watched, the trail was paved. I didn’t expect it to become so rugged (rocks and roots), narrow, crowded, or steep.

I’m sorry to say I didn’t make it all the way up. I could have, but with bad knees (think the Tin Man in <em>The Wizard of Oz</em>), I worried with every step about how I’d get back down. When I called it, we turned around. Cole walked in front of me to stop my fall if my knees locked up. All was ok until, while mid-step, a snake darted across the dirt path under my raised foot. He was in the brush before anyone else saw him, but I’m sure they heard me scream.

I have since learned that because Maroon Lake is so high in the Rockies (9,580 feet) and the winters are so cold, most reptiles can’t thrive there. What I saw, turns out, was a Western Terrestrial Garter Snake/Wandering Snake, which can live at elevations of 11,000 feet. Fun fact: July – September is the “August Rush” when females give birth, sun around the lake trails, and eat frogs and insects before winter hibernation. When startled, they dart at high speed to safety.

I didn’t like feeling my age when I turned back, but as always the vast, ancient mountains made me feel small. Nature often does, in a good way. As for the snake… we were both scared and fully alive.

Glenwood Springs: Home Base for Skiing, Relaxing, and Family Fun

Glenwood Springs is a small town of 10,000 residents located 40 miles north of Aspen. Known as the “Spa in the Mountains,” Glenwood Springs is home to Iron Mountain Hot Springs and Glenwood Hot Springs Resort (see below). Adult family fun includes floating, rafting, and kayaking down the Colorado and Roaring Fork Rivers. Another main attraction is Glenwood Caverns Adventure Park.

There are four ski areas owned by Aspen Skiing Company: Snowmass, Buttermilk, Aspen Highlands, and Aspen Mountain.

The closest ski area to Glenwood Springs is Sunlight Mountain Resort, which is just south of the community. It is the most affordable option by far and has one base area, which is nice for families. Sunlight also has snowmobile tours in winter and bike rentals, hiking, and disc golf in summer.

Ride Glenwood Springs (RG) is the town’s year-round FREE public transit bus service. RG buses operate daily at 30-minute intervals. Stops are located near tourist attractions, the downtown area, and shopping centers. Using the Roaring Fork Transportation Authority (RFTA) is a local hack. For just a few dollars, you can shuttle from Glenwood Springs to Aspen. Ski, shop, or enjoy the nightlife without the hassle of driving/parking. We didn’t try this, but reviews say the buses are clean and have racks for electric bikes that weigh under 75 lbs and can be loaded/unloaded independently.

The Ultimate Reset: The World’s Largest Hot Springs Pool

We stayed at the Glenwood Hot Springs Resort, home to the world’s largest mineral hot springs pool. Day passes, lockers, and cabanas are available, but we wanted the convenience of being close to the pool, having easy access to downtown (a bridge takes you to the restaurant area), and the hotel’s complimentary breakfast. Hotel 1888 is poolside, but we booked the Lodge, which is more budget-friendly and runs adjacent to the pool/across the street.

Stretching two blocks, the pool holds a million gallons of mountain water with 15 minerals. The geothermal Yampah Spring feeds the pool 3.5 million gallons of volcanic-heated water at 122°F (51°C) that cools to a soothing, safe temperature for swimming. The indigenous Ute Native Americans called the mineral-rich waters “Big Medicine.” They considered the valley a neutral, sacred sanctuary where rival tribes were allowed to lay down weapons and enter the healing waters.

What to Expect

If you love soaking in steamy waters surrounded by snow or lush green mountains, this is your place.

  • Pool Temps: Grand Pool: 90°-93°F (32°-34°C)
  • Therapy Pool: 104°F (40°C)
  • Cold-Plunge Pool
  • There’s a diving board and 4 swimming lanes.
  • The Sopris Splash Zone has Shoshone Chutes (tube ride), Grand Fountain that transitions to a splash pad during the day, and a pool for younger kids.
  • Water in the deep end of the Grand Pool appears to be a darker green. The Yampah Mineral Baths are fed from the geothermal source spring at the east end of the resort. The water from the source spring contains several naturally occurring minerals, including iron and sulphur. The interaction (balancing) of iron and chlorine can cause water discoloration, sometimes turning the water green. Deeper water deepens the tint.

If you plan a winter trip, these photos, courtesy of Glenwood Hot Springs Resort, look magical.

Hot Springs at Glenwood Springs
Hot Springs Lodge & Pool – Glenwood Springs, CO, pr@hotspringspool.com, 970-947-2946

Where to Eat in Glenwood Springs

In casual, downtown Glenwood Springs, we had many fun choices for dinner. See some of them in the video above. We enjoyed Ming’s Cafe and the line at Sundae was worth the wait. I can’t wait to try authentic Nepalese, Tibetan, and Himalayan cuisine (often paired with Indian dishes) on my next trip. The Rocky Mountains are similar in terrain, high altitudes, and outdoor living, attracting many immigrants from these areas.

Another highlight of our time together was our dinner at the historic Hotel Colorado, located next to our resort. We walked over at Golden Hour, and I could imagine the Gilded Age crowd that once gathered there. The hotel was built in 1893 by Walter Devereux, a silver baron and settler of Glenwood Springs. Architect Edward Tilton designed the building to replicate the Villa de Medici in Rome. There were tennis courts, a Victorian garden, a bird sanctuary, an indoor waterfall, and the medicinal hot springs.

Famous guests were President Taft, President Hoover, and the Unsinkable Molly Brown. For a time, President Teddy Roosevelt, a bear and mountain lion hunter, lived at the hotel. According to legend, after an unsuccessful day of hunting, the maids of Hotel Colorado stitched and stuffed him a bear from fine fabrics. When they gave it to the President, his daughter named the bear “Teddy.”

Buffalo Bill Cody went to Glenwood Springs for its healing waters. He posed for his last photo before dying at the hotel. Al Capone, or “Scarface,” was a regular. To prevent bad publicity, the hotel constructed an entrance for him and other bootleggers and gangsters.

During World War II, the hotel became a naval hospital. I’d read that Hotel Colorado is haunted. When I asked our waiter if the tales were true, he told us about a time he was working late and experienced paranormal activity. And a guest shared with him a chilling story that happened to her just days before we were there. Roam the beautiful grounds, have their delicious food and drinks on the patio, enjoy top-tier service, but if you decide to stay there overnight, do so at your own risk. 🙂

Rather than checking off a list, posting a family photo, and writing on social media, “Christmas 2026 is a wrap!” slow down, breathe, and make this holiday season and the new year special. The Dalai Lama said, “Give the ones you love wings to fly, roots to come back, and reasons to stay. ” I hope you’ll relax in some healing waters — the Lord knows we need them now — with the people who matter most. Time with family during the holidays or the new year can be Big Medicine.

Empty nester solo travel fashion style in downtown Denver Colorado

10 Reasons Why Denver Is the Best Choice for an Adult Family Vacation in Any Season

Science shows that we need new experiences — new horizons — for wellness. Travel improves mental, physical, and emotional health. Our world expands — literally and mentally — when we explore wide, open spaces and try diverse diversions. Offering plenty of both, Denver, Colorado is one of my favorite US destinations.

Neuroscientists used to believe that the brain could only change during childhood, but we know that our brain is continually changing through the process of “neuroplasticity.” Actually getting out of our comfort zone and embracing new experiences is integral to the experience of travel. If you are looking to make the most of your brain’s neuroplasticity — a new environment “wakes up” your brain.

https://brainworldmagazine.com/how-travel-benefits-your-brain/

My initial encounter with the state was not love at first sight. Decades ago, a colleague and I took students to Durango, Colorado on a ski trip. As I peered up at the appropriately named Purgatory Mountain, Mr. H said I didn’t need a lesson — You can water ski, right? So I hopped on a chair lift and we took off. How hard could it be?

As we neared the summit, I realized this wasn’t a ride at the Western Kentucky State Fair. No carnival worker was waiting to stop the lift and let me off. So I took the leap … and busted my tailbone on the ice. Groaning and groping, I managed to catch another chair. I was the only person who rode the lift down the slopes that day (or maybe on any day).

Determined to experience the thrill of victory and erase the agony of defeat, I soaked in the hot tub and the next day, attempted a lesson on the Bunny slopes. All you have to do is learn how to stop, Mr. H said. How hard can it be?

Ask the kids screaming and dodging the woman on runaway skis. They’ll tell you they were just thankful (as was I) for the concession stand at the bottom of the hill that stopped me. Humiliated again, I never planned to give the state a second look. But when my son moved to Denver in 2020, I learned you don’t have to be a skier to enjoy Colorado! Four stays later, I’m in love with the place.

WHY DENVER?

If you’re a beach person, I get it. I’m a Pisces, the “Dreamy Fish” who usually opts for escapes to the ocean. But around Denver, pristine lakes and rivers glisten under sun 300 days a year. From downtown in the Mile-High City, you can see 120 miles of The Rocky Mountains dolloped with snow and lush with green pines. Denver is base camp for exploring natural wonders — like Pike’s Peak, Old-West towns, and The Continental Divide.

Denver tourists and 715K million residents can enjoy six professional sports teams, 3 downtown stadiums, 6 art districts, 100 breweries, museums, botanic gardens, parks, animal sanctuaries, a bison preserve, an aquarium, butterfly pavilion, and (whew—let me catch my breath) a world-famous music venue.

What I love most about this area, is the eclectic mix of people. Big Tech Professionals, University of Colorado Students, Hippies, Hipsters, and Cowboys call the Denver area home. (As I write this, the National Western Stock Show Kick-Off Parade is happening at Union Station. Longhorn cattle and Yellowstone fans are everywhere.)

Something fun for everyone is always happening here! Choose upcoming events and festivals that interest you and consider these reasons for planning a 2025 trip!

1. A WINTER WONDERLAND (and Beautiful Ski Resorts Nearby)

Even if you don’t ski, snowboard, or snowshoe, you can watch the snow fall while sipping a toddy in the hot tub or tea beside a fire. Gourmet chefs make just a day trip worthwhile. Resort season is in full swing, so make plans now.

2. Magical Christmas Markets and Light Shows

After discovering the wonder of Christmas markets in London, England and Cologne, Germany, I was THRILLED to learn that Christkindlmarket is a Denver tradition. In a village of European-style huts lights twinkle, hand-painted and hand-blown glass ornaments shimmer, German candle carousels twirl, nutcrackers and nesting dolls grin. Brats, beers, Glühwein (mulled spiced wine), s’mores kits and fire pits to use them, cinnamon almonds… so much good food.

After roaming markets-by-day on foot, we enjoyed a warm drive-through of Denver- by- night aglow. Historic neighborhoods, Blossoms of Light at Denver Botanic Gardens, and Zoo Lights where families were lined up stroller-to-stroller were sights to behold. These, and other holiday traditions, like The Nutcracker, sell out early so plan ahead.

3. Fun Food Halls and Cozy Eateries

The Dairy Block, a food hall that’s fun year-round, has a small outdoor market during the Christmas season where you can get a photo with the Grinch and Cindy Lou Who, buy a Be Hippy tee from the brand designer, or rock out with a swing trio.

Two of our favorite breakfast spots are just up the street from my son’s apartment in the Highland neighborhood. Rush Bowls are great for a fast, healthy fix. Or at decadent Carbon Cafe and Bar, you can

  • Have brunch with a Banana Bake Martini, Coffee Manhattan, or Chai Spiced Old Fashioned, then shop the eclectic area.
  • Work on your book, and if you get blocked, take a coffee break with David Hasselhoff.
  • Set up a remote office indoors, then scoot to the patio on warm days for Happy Hour 3:00-6:00

4. Iconic Hotels and Hubs for the Holidays

Reel

Ride a horse-drawn carriage or carousel at The Denver Pavilions. Wander decked halls at The Oxford Hotel, Union Station, and The Ritz Carlton. Cole warmed up at the piano and we watched a football game at the Elway’s Bar. Pop Up Bars are another holiday option, but you’ll need reservations for these so get on the mailing list at Miracle Denver.

5. Nearby DO- NOT- MISS ESTES PARK and THE STANLEY, Birthplace of Stephen King’s The Shining

OUR FAVORITE ADVENTURE on my last trip started with brunch at The Stanley. The 110-year-old hotel is located about ninety minutes north of Denver. The early morning drive through Boulder, farm land, and the Rocky Mountains is beautiful. As we neared The Stanley, we played the movie soundtrack.

After basing his first two novels, Carrie and Salem’s Lot, in his native state of Maine, Stephen King spread out a US map on his kitchen table and randomly pointed to Boulder, Colorado. In October 1974 King and his wife, Tabitha, checked into The Stanley. They were the only guests.

That night I dreamed of my three-year-old son running through the corridors, looking back over his shoulder, eyes wide, screaming. He was being chased by a fire-hose. I woke up with a tremendous jerk, sweating all over, within an inch of falling out of bed. I got up, lit a cigarette, sat in a chair looking out the window at the Rockies, and by the time the cigarette was done, I had the bones of the book firmly set in my mind”.

Stephen King (According to George Andrews’ biography, Stephen King: America’s Best-Loved Boogeyman, 1998)

No doubt the hotel has a haunted history. Book a tour if you want chilling stories and underground passageways. We learned that King was not happy with changes Director Stanley Kubrick made in the 1980 film adaptation. A major change was location. Shots of the Overlook Hotel were not done at The Stanley but in Oregon and the UK. Thus, King filmed the 1997 miniseries at The Stanley.

But if you’re into hardcore horror and want to be scared senseless …

Cue Psycho– shower- scene-sound-effect … then… RECORD SCRATCH

The warmth of cozy fires, stuffed red-nosed reindeer dolls, greetings from friendly servers, delicious food, and bubbly drinks, memorabilia from Dumb and Dumber which was also filmed here….

We had to smile.

The menu at Brunch & Co is so fun with dishes like Rise & Shining, Wendy Darling, and Danny Boy! Cole had The Falafel Bowl with RedRum Ale, and I had Belgium waffles, The Grady Twins (avocado crab cakes, poached eggs with tarragon hollandaise) with their Peach Mimosa.

Estes Park is beautiful in all seasons. You might just see elk, bighorn sheep, and moose. It was also home to the Denver Post Editor (Birch Ruins below).

6. Great small towns, like hip BOULDER, and Old-West Golden

Boulder is great for biking and people-watching. We also enjoyed the drive to off-the-beaten-path Silverton for a big breakfast. On the way back we stopped at Lookout Mountain outside Golden and saw Buffalo Bill’s grave.

7. Hiking and biking in the Great Outdoors, then sipping at breweries.

Biking around Boulder and Denver is one of my favorite things. Fall was perfect for a ride to the Blue Moon Brewery.

Garden of the Gods is a Must-See Natural Wonder.

8. Museums and the Arts

Street art is wall-to-wall in the RiNo Art District. Visual and performing artists are everywhere.

9. Cheer for Denver Sports or Follow Your Own Teams When They Play Denver.

DENVER IS A SPORTS CITY. We cheered on the Denver Nuggets at Ball Arena, home also of the Colorado Avalanche Hockey Team. Fans can get tickets to see the Colorado Rockies at Coors Stadium, the Denver Broncos, and more here.

10. Comedy, Yoga, Films on the Rocks at Denver’s Music Mecca, Red Rocks Amphitheater and Park.

The Beatles, Jimi Hendrix, The Grateful Dead , The Rolling Stones… Johnny Cash, The Carpenters, Ella Fitzgerald, Sonny & Cher. The list of legends who have played Red Rocks stretches miles back. So does ancient history (as in Greek and pre-historic) you’ll see at the Visitor Center (free when it reopens in April 2023). See a concert or just see the view.

Getting there: If you do’t want to do 15-mile drive to Denver, take the Red Rocks Shuttle, which offers round-trip options departing from Thirsty Lion Gastropub & Grill at Denver Union Station and Illegal Pete’s on Colfax Avenue.

Getting Around

If you don’t have a car, taking the RTD (Ride to Denver) app makes taking the train from the airport to Union Station a breeze. The commute is about 40 minutes and so smooth it reminds me of efficient public transportation systems in European cities.

Beautiful Union Station is a great place to unwind after a flight in restaurants and bars offering indoor and outdoor. My son lives in LoDo (Lower Historic Downtown Denver) which I love exploring. Whole Foods is located, just across from Union Station so if you book a hotel or rental in the area you can save money picking up groceries. Eating out and ordering takeout for every meal is tempting because the food is so delicious , but it can be expensive.

Denver neighborhoods are here. More accommodations are listed on Denver’s Official Tourist Guide below.

Other transportation options are here. With 85 miles of paved urban bike trails in metro Denver, I love renting a bike (scooters are also available) through the share program with Lyft and Lime.

Learn more on your visit with Denver Story Trek.